Services & Rates (i)
Acquiring an Escort: U.S. Monetary Etiquette
- 1. Masseur / Companions don’t sell sex for Established Legal Currencies.
- 2. First things first. Know your service providers base rates before you meet. These are not negotiable later to avoid talking currency. Additions require code terms.
- 3. When referring to compensation. Use code terms. Roses, Donation, Tribute.
- 4. All done? Did they blow your mind? Tips are encouraged but never required. The average is 20 tributes.
YOUR MINDSET SHOULD BE: Masseurs / Companions only charge for their time. What you and your Masseur / Companion do as consenting adults should only be discussed in the context of intimacy, and NEVER as a financial transaction until you know each other better. This is out of respect for yourself, the Masseur / Companion.
Why? Let’s be clear and honest. To loophole through backward U.S. laws purposely written to include victim-less situations. Brought to us under the pretense to protect under age minors and human trafficking. Witch human rites advocates like you average prostitute agree with completely. However we did not agree to the broad scoping terms deliberately and methodically used by corporate legislators like ALEC working for the private prison industry. Creating victims of honest working companions.
When meeting your Companion for the first time. Beyond the point of touching one another 😉 genitals is the point beyond where a ploy of entrapment can go. Beyond this point the case can get thrown out of court and you can start sexual abuse charges against the officer who or team who tried to entrap you. After this point the ice broken and you should feel safe enough to drop the pretense. But if your not by all means keep obscuring what is said.
It should also be said that the likelihood of any police force out to entrap gay prostitution is RARE. Why because luckily for the Gay Escort community. The police force is enamored with misogynist homophobes. However misogyny and anti-humanistic dogma views infect women. Heterosexual vise are common. The vise agent could be ether companion or client, female or male.
THE BEST TIME TO discuses fantasy’s is before you even meet via email. If the Companion entertains your fantasy they will respond to the initiated plot. People are complicated and so are their mental satisfactions. One may like humiliation but not sex. Most escorts may make this mistake. So be detailed about what gives you mental pleasure. Especially if it is not then norm or you haven’t found anyone to hit the nail on the head. The best way to do this is describe your ideal encounter. If it is not their specialty they will not entertain the subject and ether refer you to someone else or gently decline an engagement. Try to mention your kind of freak in the first email to save time. Know your freak. Here is a cute little sex web dictionary; no sexually active person today should be without. Urban Dictionary
Given that cell phones and tablets are potential audio and visual recording devices. Expect that your devices may be required to be put away. If this is your companion’s preference. They will provide that place for you if they are hosting. If it’s an out call. They may request you put yours in the bathroom or wrap it up in your clothes in a drawer. But this goes both ways. You can request the same without any reservation.
Examples of what is acceptable talk during an initial companion session:
“I was hoping for a happy end. Is 50 roses ok?”
“What kind of donation is advisable to get topped”
Understand that these negotiations do not ever refer to the initial understood rate. This rate is non-negotiable because it would refer to an already established legal currency compensation for time. Let’s not mix the two. Do your own math. ;D
Examples of what is NEVER acceptable:
“Can I make love to you for $100 dollars more”?
“What could I get for this” *show of cash*?
Getting Ready for an Erotic Massage
Make sure to get thoroughly cleaned up for your erotic massage session. A sensual massage usually means the therapist’s hands are not going to be limited unless you let them know ahead of time where NOT to go. If you are on the go and the massage therapists accommodations includes the use of a shower. It is a safe bet you can ready yourself there before the session and a shower after is a given if you do not opt to leave the lotion on. If a therapist offers the shower facilities there is a good chance they will have some general hygiene products at your disposal like; douches, deodorants, toothbrushes, floss, mouthwash, ect.
Here is a checklist for cleaning;
- Douche: If you’re expecting to get a prostate massage or open to the idea but, not sure what to expect. Do the safe thing “be ready”.
- Shower: Don’t forget to wash inside your anus sphincters and inner gluteus maximus cheeks, tant, balls and penis or vagina and pubic region. Not all but a few males also secrete there pheromones in there anal and tant region. If you’re the type who is on the pungent side, there is no rule saying you can’t use your deodorant there too.
- Toes: Make sure to clean in-between your toes and clip your toenails if you’re getting a foot massage or not sure. The therapist is basically programmed to sanitize after your foot massage.
- Breath: Brush your teeth and tongue just in case your massage therapist is willing to kiss you.
- Fingers: If you’re a male and mutual touch is permitted then clip your fingernails so you don’t scratch your therapist in any sensitive spots. Girls please be careful if you’re sporting those non-beveled claws.
- Ears: One of the biggest sensual buttons is your ears. Depending on how oral your therapist is, your ears my get some serious attention.
- Arm Pits: If your body odor is on the pungent side, it is advisable to wear your deodorant. Deodorant doesn’t interfere with most oils and creams.
Some therapists will incorporate a hot towel routine to start. This is usually a very enjoyable experience. It is a way to get you relaxed very fast as well as insuring you have a clean backside. Yes your getting your butt wiped. (lol) Don’t be embarrass the clean therapists just doesn’t like that kind of surprise and very use to the idea that some guys just aren’t that thorough.
If you have the flu or cold don’t call a massage therapist. A massage will most likely make you feel worse. Your body is all ready using all its reserve nutrients and energy for your immune system to combat your illness. Purging your system of broken free fat, tissue and toxins would add more strain already taking place in your body. Massage therapist cannot make money if they are out sick. Before making their clients sick a massage therapist will just not take clients.
Benefits of Going to a Gay Massage Therapist
The reputation of a gay massage therapist
is very different than it was just a few years ago. With the newfound acceptance of the gay community increasing every day, many people are coming to the realization that these professionals are capable of providing a great service to a great many people. They give expert therapy to those who are in need of relief from stress, anxiety, sore muscles, overworked joints, and a frazzled mind. It is true that a majority of the clients of a gay masseuse are other gay males, but the number of straight males who are choosing to get their rubdowns from these masseurs is increasing dramatically, especially in the bigger cities.
More straight males are finding that a gay massage can really provide services that are fulfilling therapy wise without any trace of eroticism whatsoever. With the rise of the metro sexual male comes a huge increase in the business that many of these professionals are getting. A metro sexual male is described as a straight man who really grooms himself very well, most often way more than the average male would by getting manicures and pedicures, for example. These guys are as straight as they come, but are finding that the benefits of many services are well worth the time and money. Part of the group of services that fit right in with the metro sexual is a session with a male masseur. The most common reason that is given as to why straight men would see this type of professional as opposed to a female was simple: because men have stronger hands and can dig into those knots and sore muscles much deeper and better than a woman’s more petite hands can.
The services from a gay masseur are just as emotionally and physically satisfying as one from a female for these guys, but in addition to that satisfaction is also a sense of camaraderie that is shared between males. Guys can talk it up with their buddies just as well as women can with their girlfriends, and getting a rubdown from a gay masseuses offers opportunities to relax and unwind with one of the guys. For the guys who are gay, getting massage services is considered the ultimate experience for them, whether the point of services is therapeutic, emotional, physical, platonic, or even if it is sexual.
Gay Male Escort Have a Great Experience
The word Male Escort today means 99% of the time means: A sexual professional who knows how to read you and provide you with your sexual needs. Because he does it often he is considered a pro. Usually he’s good looking or charismatic and makes you feel good when your together.
You may find yourself on those NSA social sites looking through the other men like products on a shelf and for some reason or another you want the built good looking guy. But then those self defeating issues overcome you. What if he’s a total snob and rejects me. What if he looks good but doesn’t know the first thing about sex. These things just don’t happen with an experienced escort.
When looking for your escort. Notice the site your on. This is usually the first indicator of whether your going to be dealing with a sexual pro. or a so called “legit escort”. The second indicator is hourly rate. A Sexual Escort will quote 240 donation and up per hr. A non-sexual, event companion or guide escort will start between $100 and $130. Pictures are also a tell. Ask yourself; is he showing off his cock, body or is all the pictures of him fully clothed. The best advise I can give when choosing between your preferred Sexual Escorts is to. Read his Ad. and presume to read between the lines. Also Read his reviews. Males love their sexual double speak. You will be able to see the meaning between the lines if you are sexually active. Look for fake reviews. It doesn’t happen often, but it’s a possibility. Today most are internet savvy and can tell. But if you need a guidance on the tells heres a short video.
Unfortunately in most backward societies. Like the USA. Dogmas have pushed it’s ideals on society. Most often in spite of our human nature. For example laws are put forth for one reason but always encompass many perfectly victim-less circumstances. Witch really aren’t illegal at all. But intentionally laws are not just written for only the victims. Take prostitution for example. Under the guise of protecting under age minors from abusive pedophilia or slavery. Witch I am all for BTW. Laws are written with broad encompassing terms to ensure it could mean as many situations as possible. Why? To keep those unconstitutional, illegal private prisons full. This process itself should be illegal. Why? Because it does create victims of these police state laws. The point being, whatever state you are in, in the USA. Just don’t equate any type of established currency to a sexual act. Code terms like roses, donation, tribute are just that. One unit of these code terms equals one unit of currency. If you are in the USA it is US Dollars and so on. So to be clear 120 roses = $120. 😉
Just like the term Conspiracy Theorists once a credible term weponized by the CIA is restoring itself back to it’s honorable term meaning a analytical thinker. Given the fact that so many conspiracies have turned out to be true or closest to the truth in recent history. The word prostitution is also regaining its real meaning untethered to social judgment. It is just a convenience for the busy man or woman that is in line to our nature. The modern male or female if they are not effected by Dogma brainwashing is OK with his true human nature.
The act for a man to take cock up the ass and massage his prostates has been proven to be apart of our nature and many other species for that matter. So don’t be surprised when it feels so pleasurable. Another lie out there is that this act causes prostate cancer. We now know that condition lies mostly with the nitrates and sulfates in our food (namely processed dried meats, and most wines). Our sexual needs do not define us. But we realizes we have these sexual needs and we address them, as adults should. Not doing so will progress to an unhealthy mental state.
In today’s USA we are slaving away to stay out of debt or TRY to get ahead. And when you look how locked down and rigged our society and monitory system is. From an overview we are realizing we are all slaves to it. But prostitution is alive and well for many reason I’m not going to go into. But the main one, supply and demand of stress relief, and human touch. It’s nice to know you can find someone who knows how to make love to you, hold you, and talk in real male terms that validate our true Male Human Nature. Whether we like it hard and rough or slow soft and affectionate. Good Male Escorts are in demand because they can accommodate a wide spectrum of needs.
If you are the kind of guy who wants to ease into a situation. Then I suggest a Masseur / Escort. With a Masseur Escort you will most likely be given a Massage rate. But if sex is something you want after meeting him. Then the escort rate is usually double the 60 minute / hourly rate. If your not sure and want the escort option. Ask him how many more roses / donation / tribute will is advised. Masseurs usually work with routines. When it comes to the time an encounter usually happens you may be given the option. Just don’t equate any legal established currency to a sexual act at least in the USA.
Not all men are cut out to be Escorts. But the ones who are, usually are very seductive. So if it is your fantasy to be a bottom. Be ready for such an encounter. Good sex is sex prepared for. Bottoms should clean 30 min before their encounter. Tops should bring protection.
Bare backing has become an issue. STD’s are on the rise because of: Prep. However you should be very aware Prep does not keep you safe from the Others. Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Hepatitis. Although these things can be cured with prompt treatment. The symptoms and abstinence is a damper of fun for a bit. Best to be safe. Put that raincoat on or the bottom should reach back and grab the base of that cock and confirm the lip is there. ;D
The Gay Masseur
Even though there are some people who are uncomfortable with receiving a rubdown from a gay massage therapist, it is easy to understand why so many people are completely relaxed with it. In fact, there are plenty of men (gay or straight) who prefer going to a male masseur, whether the masseur is straight or not. Many men seem to worry that they might become sexually aroused during a session that is supposed to be physically beneficial if they receive one from a woman, and they don t want to deal with an embarrassing unwanted erection. It is for this reason that many men prefer to go to a professional fellow man.
Now, some straight men may be uncomfortable going to a gay massage therapist, but at the same token many gay men may be uncomfortable getting a massage from a straight masseur. Many gay men turn to the masseurs that are also homosexual, but they can be difficult to find since many massage parlors do not want to deter either straight or homosexual clients by catering to one or the other.
However, the benefits are worth doing a little detective work to find a place that they are comfortable with. For those who are straight, they can enjoy a rubdown without the stress of worrying about sexual contact. It is thought that when a straight man can get a good massage from another man it reduces feelings of insecurity and it can also increase self esteem. There seems to be some psychological benefits to a good physical rubdown!
Going to a gay massage therapist has its benefits to a gay man too, because the element or fear of feeling ostracized or out of place disappears. The entire point of a massage is to completely relax, but this is very hard to do when you don t feel like you fit in with the rest of the clientele at a place or even with the staff, for that matter. Knowing that you have nothing to fear with your specific masseur can really alleviate anxiety.
It is recommended that every man, no matter what his sexual orientation is, be able to experience the satisfaction of receiving a therapeutic rubdown from a straight or gay massage therapist in a non judgmental and socially positive atmosphere. Whether that means having a gay or straight man giving the massage, the choice should be up to the client. Thankfully these days there are many excellent resources on the Internet for finding a masseuse in your area that will be able to cater to any and all of your needs with many different types of therapies and techniques, whether you choose a straight or a gay massage therapist.
Difference between a Swedish Massage and a Deep Tissue Massage
People who want to get a massage are often confused between the different forms of massages. They will often ask for a Deep Tissue. But what they really mean to ask their therapist is “I want a Swedish Massage with heavy pressure”. However when you tell a massage therapist you want a Deep Tissue. You may be in for a surprise once your session starts. Deep can hurt and may make you feel sore days after. That is why the CMT is quick to ask “Are you sure you want a Deep Tissue”? Granted some may know the differences, but it has been my experience that most don’t know till they have experienced the difference. Even worse, they tend to identify them as the same, when in fact, most massage forms are unique. This is often the case with Swedish and Deep Tissue Massages. Both types of massage are regarded by some as the same.
The Swedish massage involves five basic principles, which include: Giving long and smooth strokes; gentle kneading of the muscles; applying therapeutic friction; tapping and providing constant vibration. The combination of these techniques ensures maximum circulation and relaxation. Giving the Masseur the tools to customize a session according to the needs of the client. It is no wonder why there is a large following of practitioners and clientele. Once the word got around of its undeniable therapeutic beneficial results.
The other very popular massage type is the deep tissue massage. It targets three central muscular regions, namely: The neck area, the back, and also the fascia (connective tissues). The massage is called by this name because it is really intended to penetrate deeper into the underlying muscle layers. The massage is meant to carefully ease out all those strained muscles below the surface.
As well, many of the principles used for the deep tissue massage are also present in the Swedish massage, but the deep tissue massage is rather more forceful in nature. Moreover, this form of massage focuses on problem areas ‘“this means that it targets the stiff muscle regions that are overly stressed, rather than working permanently on the back and neck areas. However, no matter how naturally intense this massage can be, it will not hurt as much as what many people have come to believe. It may be the disturbing depth at which the therapist reaches under the layers within the body and the soreness afterwards that may turn some away. However don’t ignore this type of massage. Because the fact that it is very effective and has longer lasting results is ideal for some.
1. The Swedish massage is a gentler and softer massage compared to the more intense and forceful deep tissue massage.
2. The Swedish massage is best for those who have very sensitive skin types, that bear rashes easily, most especially when powerful friction and rubbing is applied.
3. The Swedish massage is the massage of choice for those who are looking to relieve normally stressed from work or home issues. But if you are not up for a Deep Tissue. Just ask for heavy pressure.
4. The deep tissue massage is for those who are in chronic pain, were involved in many strenuous activities, or who are continually troubled by previous injuries. This technique is very effective and has longer lasting results. It can be disturbingly deep and may leave you sore for a few days after. I myself get a Deep Tissue every six months. I personally find it very renewing to get broken down thoroughly.